Rich Queer Aunties

Christabel Mintah-Galloway 38 - 35: If Not Us, Who? Stop outsourcing indigeneity to your parents.

Two queer African lesbians aunties having the conversations our cultures told us to swallow. Rich Queer Aunties is a space for truth-telling at the intersection of culture, queerness, relational healing, and diaspora life. Hosted by Christabel and Kachi, two Igbo daughters, lovers, thinkers, and truth-telling aunties, we unpack the emotional, cultural, and relational stuff we were never supposed to name out loud. From hierarchical colonial collectivist conditioning to people-pleasing, from religious trauma to queer love, from rupture to repair, we talk through the real work of becoming whole. We’re not here to perform wisdom, we’re here to practice liberation in real time, through honest conversations, cultural analysis, and the relational skills we’re still learning ourselves. If you’ve ever felt split between worlds…the obedient child and the rebellious self…the good daughter and the free adult…the hyper-competent professional and the lonely inner child…this is your space. We see...

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06 apr. 2026

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30 dec. 2025

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17 iun. 2025

29 mai 2025

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24 feb. 2025

30 ian. 2025

07 ian. 2025

25 dec. 2024

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08 oct. 2024

16 sep. 2024

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13 aug. 2024

02 aug. 2024

20 iul. 2024

24 iul. 2023

24 apr. 2023

06 apr. 2023

24 mar. 2023

25 mai 2021

17 feb. 2021

29 dec. 2020

08 oct. 2020

01 iul. 2020

15 iun. 2020

03 iun. 2020

22 mai 2020

15 mai 2020

05 mai 2020

30 apr. 2020

29 apr. 2020

Rich Queer Aunties

Episoade

35: If Not Us, Who? Stop outsourcing indigeneity to your parents.

34: Aftercare, Repair, and Coming Back to Love (Part 2)

33: Money Loves Circles: Why You Should Do Business with Your Friends

32: Navigating conflict as African Lesbians. How childhood trauma shapes our present relationships.

31: Queer, African & Engaged: Grieving family while choosing ourselves

30: It’s Not a Mother Wound. It’s Patriarchy.

29: Love & Rage - What Did You Inherit and What Are You Choosing

28: Severed Selves, Righteous Rage & the Courage to Reintegrate

27: Building Relational Skills to Defy Empire

26: If Your Spirituality Is Isolating You, It’s Not Working: A Critique of How We Practice Indigenous Spirituality

25: Healing Beyond the Master’s Tools: Therapy, Queerness, and Rediscovering Indigenous Wisdom

24: 2024 Reflections: What we’re leaving behind & what we’re carrying forward

23: Choosing Between an Anti-Black Country and a Homophobic One: Building a Youth Empowerment Center in Ghana

22: Dear Queer Babies, Your Healing Matters: Lessons from Our Stories

21: Percent Better by 80 - A Conversation on Rage with Christabel

20: Coming Home to Self: A Conversation with Kachi

19: Boundaries in Context: A Guide for Those of Diasporic Origin

18: Is a Lack of Authenticity Keeping You Stuck?

17: Showing Up as Your Authentic Self.

16: Navigating Religious Trauma, Self-Discovery, and Family Estrangement: A Journey of Healing and Growth. A conversation with Dan.

15: Coming Out as Gay: My Journey of Overcoming the Fear of Rejection as a Jehovah’s Witness

14: My Journey of Balancing Collectivism and Individuality: Personal Stories and Cultural Reflections

13: Unconvering Authenticity- A Solo Episode on Love Loss and Learning to Heal

12: Is meme repost culture gaslighting you into thinking you’re doing the work? Doing the work irl and finding your people.

11: Capitalism vs. pay me for my work

10: Relationships as my biggest teacher.

9: Back Like I never Left

8: Q&A : Coming out, skin care, organized religion, and more.

7: Black joy, white fragility, and everything in between

6: Not Racist? Not Enough! - How to become anti-racist.

5: Liberation from Subconscious Conditioning

4: Spankings and Slavery

3: Religion and Internalized Homophobia

2: My Healing Journey

1: My Why