Yalla Habibi

Yalla Habibi

🎧 New episodes 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗧𝘂𝗲𝘀𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗔𝗠 𝗨𝗞 🎙 Hosted by 𝗦𝗰𝗼𝘁𝘁 & 𝗦𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗯𝘆 𝐓𝐢𝐤 𝐓𝐨𝐤 & 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺 ➤ @yallahabibipodcast Welcome to Yalla Habibi! We’re Scott and Shelby, and on our podcast we live by “Yalla Habibi” — a phrase from our travels in the Middle East meaning “let’s go my love”. We’re here for couples who look at the “normal” life plan and think, “This isn’t for us.” Together, we explore love, big life choices, and the unexpected moments that come with creating a life that feels truly yours. Please like, comment and rate us 😊
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Why is saying no so difficult, even when you know it’s the right thing for you? In this episode of the Yalla Habibi Podcast, we’re joined by psychology coach Breanne Felicella, founder of Diary of a People Pleaser, to explore people pleasing, healthy boundaries, self worth and the pressure to meet society’s expectations in relationships. We put our five social rules under the microscope, from attending weddings and splitting the bill to staying until the end, drinking alcohol and dancing. Together, we explore the difference between people pleasing, personal preferences and setting boundaries, why saying no can lead to confrontation, and how to handle friends and family who struggle to accept your choices. In This Episode: • The difference between people pleasing, personal preferences and boundaries • Why we struggle to say no without feeling guilty • How social expectations influence our relationships • Why people can react badly when you start setting boundaries • Building self worth without relying on…

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S3: Stop Seeking Approval and Start Setting Boundaries | Breanne Felicella, Diary of a People Pleaser

Why is saying no so difficult, even when you know it’s the right thing for you? In this episode of the Yalla Habibi Podcast, we’re joined by psychology coach Breanne Felicella, founder of Diary of a People Pleaser, to explore people pleasing, healthy boundaries, self worth and the pressure to meet society’s expectations in relationships. We put our five social rules under the microscope, from attending weddings and splitting the bill to staying until the end, drinking alcohol and dancing. Together, we explore the difference between people pleasing, personal preferences and setting boundaries, why saying no can lead to confrontation, and how to handle friends and family who struggle to accept your choices. In This Episode: • The difference between people pleasing, personal preferences and boundaries • Why we struggle to say no without feeling guilty • How social expectations influence our relationships • Why people can react badly when you start setting boundaries • Building self worth without relying on…

23 oct. 2026
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Should Your Partner Have a Say in How You Spend Your Money? | Financial Boundaries

How can couples manage money fairly when everyone has a different opinion on how relationships should work? In this episode of the Yalla Habibi Podcast, we talk about financial equality in relationships, managing money as a couple, communication, and why social expectations shouldn't determine how couples handle their finances. We share how we make financial equality work in our relationship, from tracking shared expenses and resolving disagreements to challenging traditional expectations around money, and what other couples can take from our experience to build a happier, more balanced relationship. In This Episode: How we make financial equality work as a couple Why communication is important when managing money How we track shared expenses and keep each other accountable Dealing with financial disagreements in relationships Why couples should question traditional financial expectations How family, culture and society influence financial decisions Setting healthy financial boundaries with your partner…

16 oct. 2026
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Why Financial Equality Is More Complicated Than Couples Think | Couples Finances

Is splitting everything 50/50 really the fairest way to manage money in a relationship? In this episode of the Yalla Habibi Podcast, we talk about splitting finances as a couple, financial equality, money disagreements, and the challenges of managing shared expenses while keeping personal finances separate. We share the challenges of splitting everything evenly, dealing with judgement from family and friends, deciding what counts as a shared expense, and why financial independence, trust and freedom make the extra effort worthwhile. In This Episode: The challenges of splitting expenses 50/50 as a couple Dealing with judgement over who pays for dates and days out How we track and manage shared expenses Deciding what counts as a joint or personal expense Why big purchases like houses and cars complicate financial equality The benefits of keeping personal finances separate How financial independence can reduce resentment and money disagreements Why fairness looks different in every relationship We also explore…

09 oct. 2026
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Why We Split Our Money 50/50 Even When Society Says Men Should Pay | Financial Equality

When it comes to relationships, should it be my money, your money or our money? In this episode of the Yalla Habibi Podcast, we talk about money in relationships, financial equality, splitting expenses as a couple, and the conflicting expectations around who should pay. We share how we manage our finances as a couple, why we pay evenly for shared expenses, what we keep financially separate, when we choose to pay for each other, and why we don’t believe being in a relationship makes you entitled to your partner’s money. In This Episode: The conflicting financial expectations placed on couples Whether men should still be expected to pay more What financial equality actually means in a relationship• How we split bills and shared expenses as a couple Why we keep personal expenses separate How we decide what counts as a joint expense Why paying evenly doesn’t have to mean keeping score Building a financial system that feels fair to both partners We also look at financial infidelity in Scott’s WTF of the Week,…

02 oct. 2026
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Ultimate UAE Travel Guide: The Truth After One Month & What Surprised Us Most | Yalla Habibi Podcast

Here’s your ultimate guide to the United Arab Emirates— a country that holds a special place in our hearts and is ultimately responsible for this podcast being called Yalla Habibi. We share the story behind the name, our first trips to Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Sharjah, and a New Year’s experience we’ll never forget. In “Jet Lag Judgements” we unpack what Dubai hit us with from the moment we arrived and whether those famous first impressions lived up to the hype. “Vegan Voyagers” puts Dubai’s vegan scene to the test, from Middle Eastern classics to the all-important question of price, while in “Worth The Trip” we get into the highs, the frustrations, what you need to know before visiting, and whether the UAE deserves a place on your travel list. Chapters (01:39) – How the UAE Started Our Podcast (03:43) – Our UAE New Year Story (04:15) – Why the UAE Puts Families First (06:00) – Did We Meet the Dubai Bling Cast? (06:48) – Jet Lag Judgements: UAE (09:47) – Vegan Voyagers: UAE (18:01) – Worth The Trip: UAE…

22 sep. 2026